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LOVE, HONOR, CHERISH
It's a beautiful event when a man and a woman celebrate their 25th,
40th or even 50 th wedding anniversary. Such
blessed milestones ought to be celebrated publicly in our faith
community as witnesses to the power of love and grace in the
Sacrament of Holy Matrimony. Such anniversaries offer the
opportunity for all husbands and wives to rededicate themselves to
love, honor and cherish their spouse and renew their sacred vows.
In God's original design of creation, men and women were partners in
paradise. The scene in the Garden of Eden when the Lord God fashions
the woman (Genesis
2:18-25) provides a
blueprint for the nature of that partnership ?it is a partnership
based on intimacy and dignity. The intimacy between man and woman,
husband and wife, is such that it even supersedes that of one's
parents: they become one flesh. As one flesh, they indeed become a
new creature, capable of creating new life. Likewise, the dignity
shared between man and woman, husband and wife, is such that one
partner is not above the other in honor. It is a significant detail
that the Lord God fashioned the woman from the man's mid-section,
not from his head and not from his foot ?they are equal partners in
God's eyes. Nonetheless, we know all to well that the reality of sin
and human rebelliousness disrupts this original design of
male-female partnership intended by God from creation.
With his proclamation of the Kingdom of
God, Jesus Christ creates the world and humanity anew. As part of this
new creation, Jesus restores the intimacy and dignity between man
and woman, husband and wife. Sacramental Marriage is a privileged
participation in this new creation inaugurated with the proclamation
of the Kingdom. Jesus solemnly affirms: "They are no longer one
flesh. Therefore, what God has joined, no human being must separate
(Mark 10:8-9). Understood in this context, divorce becomes
incompatible with God's design for humanity, a corruption of God's
restoration of the male-female partnership.
Let us pray for all husbands and wives bonded together in Holy
Matrimony. May they be true to their commitment to God and to each
other. Let us also pray for those for whom marital strife and
separation are hard facts of life. May they be strengthened in their
pain and brokenness.
Rev. John A. Szukalski, SVD
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